Gay Christians (or, The Truth About Sin)
Those at Gay Christians Online would like
you to believe that it's ok to be a Christian and to be gay. I thought
about this long and hard, and decided that there is a very prominent
misunderstanding about the nature of sin and its consequences. I write
this page not in hatred, but in the respect of God and the remembrance
that all men are sinners (including me), not just some. NEW:
please see the disclaimers below.
This is important to understand. If one
does not understand the concept of sin, how can one know what is and is
not sin? I'd like to bring this out on this page. As background, all
men have a conscience, and know right from wrong. If this were not so,
we could try to argue that "we didn't know" when we face God. God is
not the kind of God to simply condemn the world without giving everyone
a chance and an understanding.
First, if you have read Genesis 1-3, you'd
remember that God created the earth, and the first man (Adam), and put
them in a wonderful Garden of Eden. In Genesis 2:9, we see that there
was a tree of knowledge of good and evil located in the Garden of Eden.
In Genesis 2:16-17 God told Adam that he could eat of any tree in the
garden except the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Also, Genesis
2:18 and following, God knew it wasn't good for Adam to be alone, so He
created Eve from one of his ribs. Of course, Satan eventually showed up
to ruin God's perfect garden by tempting Eve. He wanted her to sin,
i.e. to disobey God by eating of the tree God told them not to eat
from. Of course it worked, unfortunately. Eve sinned, then gave to
Adam, who also sinned. Genesis 3:7 says that then their eyes were
opened, and they realized they were naked. Of course, God knew: Adam
blamed Eve, Eve blamed Satan (the serpent). Because of their sin, God
cursed the serpent to crawl on the ground; God cursed Eve by pain and
sorrow in childbirth; and cursed the ground (thorns and thistles, etc)
because of Adam, and cursed Adam to be the one to have to cultivate it
and to work hard all of his life. However, God is not evil: in Genesis
3:21 God made them clothes so they wouldn't have to be naked. Then,
reasoning amongst Himself, He drove Adam and Eve from the Garden of
Eden so that they didn't eat of the Tree of Life and live forever (i.e.
live forever in a sinful body).
Now, fast forward to today. Paul wrote in Romans 1:18-32 that God plainly showed mankind about His eternal power and divine nature, so that we are without excuse. But we don't like to think about God or glorify God for who He is, so God gave us up to do whatever we want. Verse 27 of Romans 1 talks about lesbianism and homosexuality, and interestingly it uses the phrase "and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due", which basically means "due to their sin, they got what they deserved." However, let's not bash gays or lesbians, because versus 29-31 list ALL the sins mankind is filled with, and all of those are equally sin. Sin doesn't come in degrees, it's black and white: either it's sin or not. Jesus died for all our sins, small and great. Also, see Jeremiah 17:9, which I like to quote. This was God talking through the mouth of Jeremiah the prophet. It makes clear that the human heart (or, what what we desire to do) is desperately wicked: it absolutely must do evil. We are the sinners. Every human being on the planet is a sinner. We all need God's forgiveness. Also see Romans 3:10-18 quotes Psalm 14:1-3, Psalm 53:1-3, and Ecclesiastes 7:20. It shows that there is no such thing as a person who is righteous on their own merit.
Obviously, everyone is a sinner. But what happens to sinners? Romans 6:23 tells us that sin is similar to a job: our wages (salary) is death, but God's gift is eternal life. Clearly (as with other passages), we are all going to die due to our sin, whether directly as a result of it, or indirectly at the end of our lives, for we all will eventually die. That's why no mortal can escape death: it's inevitable.
Acts 16:25-34 gives a good example:
"believe on the Lord Jesus Christ." Who is this Jesus? What's so
special about Jesus? John 3:1-21 give us the answer in verse 16 and 18.
Ok, so those who believe in Jesus won't be condemned. Were we condemned
in the first place? Yes, as verse 19 it says that we don't like Jesus,
the light of the world, because our sins are evil. Even a man Jesus
healed in John 5:1-15, He told him not to sin any more, or else a worse
thing might happen to him. Even to the woman caught in adultery (where
was the man?) in John 8:1-12, Jesus told her that He did not condemn
her: she was to go and not sin any more. In Luke 5:17-32 Jesus has the
power to forgive sins, as He did when He healed the paralyzed man.
Jesus spent his life (verse 31-32) seeking the sinners and making all
efforts to forgive and heal them spiritually. Therefore, we are to
believe that He is the Son of God and that He alone has the power to
forgive sins.
Also, we are to believe that His death on the cross
is what paid them. In Hebrews 9:11-15 we learn that Jesus Christ is our
High Priest, who paid for our sins using His own blood, once and for
all. Not only does He have the power to forgive sins, He has the power
to erase those sins. Therefore, Romans 3:21-26 tells us that all have
sinned, but that we are justified freely by His grace through the
redemption (or, the payment of sins) that is in Christ Jesus. Romans
4:5 plainly says that we are to believe in Him (Jesus) who justifies
(forgives; pays the sin debt) the ungodly (sinners). Romans 10:1-13
sums it up very nicely: those who confess the Lord Jesus and believe in
their hearts that God has raised Him from the dead will be saved. It is
the power of Jesus to forgive sins that saves, but only our faith can
allow that to happen. We are not to say that we ourselves are
righteous, as verse 3 shows, but believe in God's righteousness. Jesus
is the end of (personal) righteousness: we are not righteous, nor can
we be, but Jesus is infinitely righteous, and also has unlimited power
to forgive sins.
It is not logical, however, to say without reserve that someone who is a murder can just ask to be forgiven, and he won't be punished. Forgiveness is one thing, punishment is another. A murder can be forgiven of his sins against God, true, and even go to heaven if he is saved. However, he will still face the penalty for his sins on earth. Therefore, I'd like to list some of the sins which carry unique penalties, but first, some explanation:
The Old Testament was written to Jews, true. However, to merely say that it's outdated or even nullified is untrue. First, because God never changes. Sin is still sin. Malachi 3:6 God plainly says that He does not change. First Samuel 15:29 says that God isn't going to just give up or repent of punishing evil, because He's not a mere man. He is like us in some ways, but greater than us in all ways. This is not to say that at times God will be merciful and not punish us to the full extent of what He promised, for He is a good God. However, His attitude towards sin does not change. Just because God isn't calling fire down from heaven on all sinners doesn't mean that He will not eventually serve justice. His justice tries to wait for man to repent, and may be appeased by repentance. Those who say that the Old Testament should be tossed out of the picture defy the nature of God. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 5:17-20 that He did not come to destroy the Law or the Prophets (the two largest sections of the Old Testament, or their way of saying the Old Testament), but to fulfill them. Romans 8:1-4 plainly teach that we fulfill the righteous requirement of the law through the Spirit. God would never ask us to do something that He also wouldn't give us the power to do.
Ok, so God doesn't change and the Old
Testament is still valid. Let us now learn what God thinks of sexual
sins. Genesis 13:12-13 tell us that Lot went to live near Sodom, but
that those people were exceedingly wicked and sinful against God. Then
in Genesis 18:16-33 when Abraham learns that God is going to destroy
Sodom "because their sin is very grave", Abraham begs God not to
destory it if He finds righteous people in it (probably thinking about
Lot), and gets down to ten righteous people. Notice here that God was
nice and let Abraham persuade Him, and while Abraham was afraid of
making God angry, God never got angry with his requests. But God didn't
find even ten righteous people in Sodom, so in Genesis 19 God destroys
Sodom. If you notice in verses 4 through 11 we see a skirmish with the
men of Sodom: they wanted to have sex with the male angels Lot was
harboring. They didn't even want his daughters, and told him that
they'd deal worse with him than the angels.
This is important to note: God destroyed it because
its sin was despicable. In Leviticus 18, God made clear the punishment
for sexual sin. God commands people not to commit adultery with their
neighbor's wife in verse 20, then not to lie down with another man as
if a woman, and here we see the term "abomination". The same thing goes
for sex with animals: "it is perversion." Then in Leviticus 19:17 God
says we are not to hate our neighbor (i.e. other human beings). Hating
sinners or anyone else is just as much sin as anything else. Then in
Leviticus 20 we see some interesting punishments:
However, we read more wisdom in Proverbs. In Proverbs 3:11-12 we read that God punishes us to help us to learn, like a father punishes his son. However, we find in Proverbs 5 we read on the perils of sexual sin. Verse 22 says something profound, how the wicked person is caught in the web of his own sin. Proverbs 6 goes further: in verse 32 it is said that the one who committs adultery with a woman lacks understanding (i.e. it can be said that they are stupid), and that he destroys his soul. Verse 33 says that his reproach will never be wiped away. His sin will most likely haunt him until his last breath. Such things are mirrored in the New Testament as well. Even without the Old Testament we find many versus that point to sexual sins being severe in punishment. Romans 1:27 plainly tells us that those who were committing homosexuality received the penalty that was due for their sin. Did God punish homosexuality? Maybe, and that would be congruent with His nature. However, might I add that there are many other diseases we could list as given to punish some sort of evil, and merely because someone has AIDS does not mean that they are being punished, for when we sin we not only affect ourselves, but we affect others. While I don't lean heavily on AIDS being a punishment to mankind, I would like to point out that 1) God reserves the right to punish us for our sins and 2) it's not like mankind hasn't deserved it, as if we could say we're good.
So let us come back to the point: sin is sin, period. While I did focus on sexual sins this time around, might I add that all men are sinners, so it's not like any one of us can point the finger at the gays or lesbians, because they also are a sinner, just in some other area. Realizing that all men are sinners should lead us to be forgiving of others and to tell them about God's love, not to go bashing them. Murdering someone because they are gay is wrong. Same thing for those who bomb abortion clinics: Jesus said "love your enemies", not "send them a bomb in the mail". Jesus preached love and repentance. However, the truth is that gay christians are making themselves to be hypocrites, since God plainly said that homosexuality, lesbianism, adultery, and beastiality are all worthy of death. Not like all sin isn't deserving of death if you read Romans, but the point remains. Read the beginning of Romans 2: God comes down hard on those who would tell others not to committ a certain sin, yet they themselves are doing the same thing. This is why I'm merely teaching the Bible: I will not condemn the gays or lesbians because I am not perfect. Therefore God condemns all mankind for their sin: the antidote is the blood of Jesus Christ and forgiveness.
Sexual preference has no bearing, however, on forgiveness. Jesus said many times "go, and sin no more". We can be forgiven, but we are also to make a conscious choice not to return to our sins. First John 1 tells us about this.
Those who are sinners should read First John, as it has many excellent truths in it. The truth is this: we are all sinners. Denying that fact only proves that we're liars. We can be forgiven if we repent of our sins. However, if someone says that they know Jesus (i.e. are a christian) and yet they live in sin, they are lying to God and to themselves. I offer this page as a warning to christians with sins in their lives: like those who hate other people, those who are adulterers, those who are lusting after women (pornography and lust are just as evil as actually committing adultery, see Matthew 5:27-30), etc. So being a gay christian is equal to saying "I'm a pornographical christian" or "I'm a cheating husband christian" or "I'm a lying christian" or "I hate you and i'm a christian."
Credits
All quotes and references are New King James Version, copyright Thomas
Nelson Publishers.
Disclaimers / Misconceptions
- The Bible does not spread hatred. There are many people out there that seem to think that because something makes someone feel guilty, this means that the Bible spreads hate. The Bible does the opposite. There are so many references in the Bible where God directly asks those who are sinning to come back to Him and ask for (and receive) forgiveness. God's goal (2 Peter 3:9 directly states that God is long-suffering towards us, not wanting any of us to perish, but that all should repent). Like I quoted above, 1 John says that God is faithful and just ("does the right thing") to forgive us if we repent.
- Some have construed these truths to make people guilty enough to committ suicide. I disagree. While suicide is a choice a person makes or does not make, the above information isn't making people guilty just to want to end it all. The Bible, while sometimes making us feel guilty when we read the truth, directly says that the goal is for us to come back to God.
- God made us in His image for us to have fellowship with HIm of our own free will. How could God turn around and then seem to say that He doesn't care? He cares deeply for us! Psalm 40 goes on and on about how God thinks about us, and hears our cries. He pulls us out of a horrible pit (i.e. situation). He puts our feet on the rock (i.e. now we have sure footing, we won't fall). He is faithful and loving. Anyone who would say that the God of the Bible is full of hatred towards everyone does not understand God's nature. God hates sin, yes, which is exactly why Jesus had to come to earth and die: to offer the way out. This is why even before this, God offered burnt offerings to forgive sin (which did not themselves forgive the sin, but pointed forward to Jesus' suffering and death to forgive). God and the Bible give hope to people, and have done so for eternity.
- If you read this and feel guilty, realize that God put these things in the Bible because they are the truth: He is warning us that sin will destroy us. He also gives us the way out: Jesus Christ's blood and suffering for our sins. He gives us hope in that He understands what we go through (Hebrews 4:14-16) and this is why He is waiting for us, to hear our prayers, forgive our sins, and give us grace to help us. We have nothing to fear from a God who forgives.
- If you are not gay, this document is not your license to harass
people. I do not want to harass anyone with this page, nor should
anyone use it in that manner. If God does not harass us, but
gently talk to us with the Holy Spirit and our conscience, you have no
excuse to do so (see my page about those who would do this, i.e. Fred Phelps). Besides, the Bible
clearly says that no one is perfect, so we really have no justification
to harass each other about sin. We should tell the truth in love,
i.e. "here are the facts, and here is the antidote for sin: Jesus
Christ".
